Love makes you hold on to things you wouldn't have been able to.

You always feel others better than yourself. You are jealous. Because you want to achieve the same standards. From this perspective jealousy conveys a sense of dissatisfaction which is to your own request. These requirements can be roughly divided into two categories: one is for your own situation; the other is beyond your capability. The former through the efforts can you achieve. Then the jealousy go away. The latter you need to learn to accept yourself and admit a certain gap. This is not equal to self-denial. Everyone can't be perfect. To correctly treat with yourself is also very significant. Accepting your own shortcomings accepting the reality of other people better than you are then jealousy is losing its living space.

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看到别人比自己强，做得比自己好而产生嫉妒心理，是因为你希望自己也能达到同样的标准。从这个角度讲，嫉妒心理传达的是你对自己的不满，是对自己的要求。这些要求大致可以分为两类：一是符合你自身状况，经过努力可以达到的；二是超出自身能力范围的。前一种要求，需要我们努力行动去实现，在期望变成现实之后，嫉妒心理也就随之而去了。后一种要求，则需要我们学习接受自己，承认自己存在某方面的差距，这并不等于自我否定。每个人都不可能十全十美，善待不够完美的自己，同样是一种非常重要的能力。能悦纳自己的不足，也就可以接受别人比自己强的现实，那么，嫉妒心理就失去是生存的空间。